Its another year ending again, and most of us are looking forward to another fresh year with new goals and aspirations.
But its also important to look back and analyze what we’ve achieved, what we failed to achieve, and, most importantly, the lessons we learned.
This year has been filled with wins, challenges, uncertainties, and unexpected turns. But amidst it all, I’ve learned a valuable lesson that has profoundly impacted my perspective on life. The most important lesson I’ve learned this year is the power of resilience.
Like most of us, I crossed a few milestones, but some were about what not to do next time, especially in crucial areas of life.
Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity, adapt, and thrive in the face of challenges. It’s about embracing the storms of life and finding strength in the midst of chaos. And let me tell you, this year has tested my resilience in ways I never imagined.
One of the key aspects of resilience that I’ve come to appreciate is the importance of having a growth mindset.
Instead of viewing setbacks as failures, I now see them as stepping stones towards success. Every obstacle I encountered this year became an opportunity for learning, for gaining new insights and skills.
Do you often find yourself overwhelmed by life’s setbacks? Whether it’s a career hurdle, personal loss, or unexpected life change, these challenges can leave us feeling stuck and powerless. You’re not alone in this struggle.
It’s a common issue that many face, but don’t know how to overcome. success. The key to thriving after setbacks is building resilience. Here’s a step-by-step approach:
· Acknowledge and Accept: Recognize your emotions and accept that setbacks are part of life’s journey.
· Reframe Your Perspective: View challenges as opportunities for growth. Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?”
· Take Small Steps: Begin with small, manageable actions to regain a sense of control.
· Seek Support: Don’t be afraid to reach out for help, whether it’s friends, family, or professionals.
· Practice Self-Care: Prioritize your well-being, both physically and mentally. Remember, resilience isn’t about avoiding the storm; it’s about learning to dance in the rain.
By embracing these steps, you’ll not only recover from setbacks but also emerge stronger and more adaptable. You’ll find yourself equipped to handle future challenges with a newfound confidence and perspective.Coach Vincent
It may take Grit, Resilience, Audacity, Confidence and Endurance, but in 2024, we will win by GRACE.
— Sola Adesakin (@SolaAdesakin) December 20, 2023
2: Making the Most of Today
By focusing on making the most of today, we set the stage for a brighter future. “You learn 100x more by actually doing the thing,” and this couldn’t be truer.
Rather than getting bogged down by overthinking, i’ve learned its better to pick a project you’ve been wanting to do and dive in. The lessons learned, irrespective of success or failure, are invaluable. This in itself is a transformative experience.
Whether it’s starting a brand, going into a new relationship, learning a musical instrument, or delving into a new hobby, the act of doing is a catalyst for personal growth. It’s not just about the end result; it’s about the process, the lessons learned, and the skills acquired along the way.
Nothing lasts forever; embrace what you have while you have it, and share that joy with others.
3: The Power of Gratitude
I’ve learned that “I receive more when I’m simply grateful first.” It also applies to dealing with others; you’re willing to give more when people are grateful for the little you’ve given them in the past.
Gratitude has a transformative power. It sets a positive tone for the future and opens doors to abundance. Gratitude is not just a state of mind; it’s a practice.
See more: Gratitude is the secret to Happiness
Consider keeping a gratitude journal where you jot down things you’re thankful for each day. This simple act can shift your focus from what’s lacking in your life to the abundance of positive elements surrounding you.
This time of year can be chaotic, so take time to pause, reflect, and appreciate. Gratitude isn't a luxury; never take life for granted. Count your blessings daily—simple moments, wins, and support. It's your compass in chaos, adding richness to your journey!
— 𝐁𝐫𝐚𝐝 𝐉𝐨𝐡𝐧𝐬𝐨𝐧 (@DrBradJohnson) December 22, 2023
4: Choosing Your Circle Wisely
In both the personal and professional realms, the people you surround yourself with play a pivotal role. Be careful who you let into your inner circle so you don’t set yourself up for more pain, betrayals, or, worse, retrogression.
The company you keep can either propel you forward or hold you back. Surround yourself with those who uplift, inspire, and challenge you to grow. Guard the gates of your eyes, your ears, your mouth, and, above all – your heart.
I’ve noticed successful people set high standards for their relationships and are not ready to settle for less. Evaluate your current relationships and associations.
Are they supportive of your goals and aspirations? Do they contribute positively to your life? If not, consider gradually distancing yourself from toxic influences and actively seeking out individuals who align with your values and ambitions.
5: Overcoming Obstacles: Fear and Closed-Mindedness
Sometimes we wait for difficult situations or even rock bottom to try new things. A friend once said: “The only thing stopping you from moving forward is either fear of the unknown or closed-mindedness.”
Acknowledge and confront these obstacles. The key is to embrace the unknown with courage, and be open-minded to new possibilities. This is the path to personal and professional growth.
The lesson learned for me this year is fear is a natural part of the human experience. Instead of letting it paralyze you, use it as a compass guiding you toward areas that require your attention.
Challenge yourself to step outside your comfort zone regularly. It might be uncomfortable at first, but growth seldom occurs within the confines of familiarity.
It’s not enough to have a dream and even to work hard for it, You also need a plan to how you would achieve it. Also, even if you’re 200% in it, it’s really hard to manage without supporters along the way (I mean emotional & spiritual support).
6: The Power of Obsession and Action
Most people would achieve better results by pushing themselves and getting obsessed with their goals than by reading more motivational books.” Be obsessed with living a better life and put in the required work to transform your life.” Mediocrity is the enemy of progress.
Going all-in on yourself, taking consistent action, and cultivating confidence are the stepping stones to success. Remember, action breeds confidence, and confidence leads to volume, ultimately bringing success.
Developing an obsession with self-improvement doesn’t mean neglecting other aspects of your life. It’s about prioritizing your growth and well-being. Create a schedule that allows for focused work, self-reflection, and moments of relaxation. Balance is key to sustaining long-term success and happiness.
7: Patience and Persistence
Building a successful and fulfilling life is a marathon, not a sprint. For everything I’ve failed to achieve this year – i’m hoping next year would be better if i put in the work.
Each step forward, no matter how small, is a testament to my progress. And consistency is the foundation upon which lasting success is built. For whatever goals you have, don’t give up; patience is key. Success rarely happens overnight.
Stay committed to your journey, start small, be consistent, invest in self-education, and watch the cumulative effects over time. This cascading list format serves as a roadmap to achieving your goals.
For every successful person you admire, there’s years of long work, dedication, and persistence.
8: Kindness and Support
I hate to be the hypocrite here, but there were times this year where i didn’t think of being kind only because i wanted to give people a taste of their own medicine (revenge) especially in cases of betrayal. In the pursuit of personal success, it’s crucial to extend kindness and support to those around us.
The fact is we all gotta make effort to be kind, and be there for people because many are hurting silently. Your actions might be the beacon of hope someone desperately needs.
Kindness is a currency that transcends material wealth. Make it a point to actively listen to others, offer a helping hand, or simply provide a word of encouragement.
You never know the impact your kindness may have on someone facing challenges. In creating a supportive community, you contribute not only to your success but also to the collective well-being of those around you.
9: Trusting Your Instincts
To really trust my instinct. Because it warns me in time to be vigilant. When people respond with “may be,” “I’ll think about it,” or “suddenly high expectations from you,” it’s probably a no.
Your instincts are a powerful guide. Listen to them, as what you allow will always continue. Trusting your instincts is a form of self-preservation and a key element in navigating life’s challenges.
Sometimes, your heart needs more time to process and accept what your intuition is whispering. Pause and let your heart align with the unspoken truths your body already knows. Trust your instinct and give yourself grace and love to accept, heal, and grow.
— Roseann | Keep On Going Motivations (@Motivateme247) December 19, 2023
It pays to let go things you do not have control over. Cultivating trust in your instincts involves self-awareness and a willingness to tune into your inner voice.
Practice mindfulness and reflection to better understand your gut feelings and intuitions. Over time, this heightened sense of self-awareness can serve as a valuable tool in decision-making and problem-solving.
While this year has been far from easy, I am grateful for the lessons it has taught me. I now carry these lessons forward, knowing that they will continue to shape my journey towards personal growth and success.
Through resilience, I have discovered the incredible strength that lies within me, and I am excited to see what the future holds. It’s your journey. Keep Moving with open heart and mind
It’s your journey. Keep moving with open heart and mind
I got attracted to tech from an early age getting close to my Father. Coupled with learning some high end skills i was able to build a 6 figure Ecommerce store a few years ago after graduating from Pharmacy.
The only way I have found to express myself as an introvert is through writing.
I’m convinced 100% that to build a 6-7-figure business and beyond you need to invest in yourself and your personal development.
The more you grow, the more your business will grow.
PS: I wrote a short book on why you don’t need more motivation and how to push through in such moments – get it here: